Monsoonal Monday!

Todays Manly Monday post has been interrupted by wild weather that has hit Queensland, causing heart-breaking damage to a lot of the state.
The beach that I live on usually looks like this:

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until today when it turned into what you see in the video above!!!!

I filmed the video in this blog with Ben today when we ventured out onto the beach to see what Mother Nature had done overnight – CRAZY STUFF!

It has been the perfect weather to snuggle up inside! I didn’t go for a run today, in fear that the high winds would blow me away! Instead I played in the foam, had a nice hot shower, watched some True Blood and indulged in Cocoluscious Vegan Ice Cream.
Due to our lack of food in the house coming up to our trip to Singapore, we decided to venture to Tian Ran – a Vegan restaurant close by that still had power and warm food!

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I hope that everyone is keeping safe, dry and warm and although it may seem really heartbreaking and crazy right now, it is times like this that we start to lose judgement over each other and unite in kindness and love to help rebuilt what has been lost.

Have a beautiful night, talk tomorrow xxxx

Food Diary Entries 24, 25, 26 & 27 – Vegan Judgement

Hi!
I’m back after four days of being quiet!

The weather on the Gold Coast has been WILD! Rain, Wind, TORNADO’S! We’ve had it all in the past four days! It has been the perfect time to hibernate and think, snuggle and get stuff done! This post is jam PACKED, so settle in, here we go.

FIRSTLY, On Thursday I went to a work lunch/function in Brisbane. It was a great chance to mix and mingle with people in my line of work. It was also a good chance to get pissed and gorge on food with no expense (if you drink and eat crappy food). This was my first experience at one of these functions and made me look at myself ALOT! How I dress, what facial expressions I pull, how confident/shy I am, what I blurt out when I’m nervous and how far I will go to impress or please others.
I am so new to this job and don’t have much experience or knowledge on the industry (tourism), so it was really intimidating trying to hold my own in a room full of wealthy, intelligent business people. Once I had made it through the first 15 minutes of mingling, we were invited into the ‘dining area’ to be seated for lunch. Most people would be so happy in this situation because of the free alcohol and lunch – but I was cringing! I didn’t know it was a sit down lunch, therefore, no one knew that I was a vegan! The waiters started bringing out the meals – Steak, Peas and mashed potato with milk and butter OR Chicken, Broccoli and mashed Sweet Potato with milk and butter. Oh no! I wanted to sink down in my chair and become invisible. As everyone started eating around me, one of my co-workers who knows I don’t eat meat asked one of the waiters if they had any vegetarian options (not knowing the difference between vegetarian and vegan). They then apologised and replaced the steak for Egg and Cheese Pastry Puffs. I didn’t know what to do. Do I eat them to not be rude and please the waiters, the people at my table and the Chef? Or do I stand strong in my beliefs and do what makes me happy, with the risk of offending people? This is always such a hard decision for me! I decided to make lots of conversation while everyone else was eating, and then to sneak my plate under the table and swap it for my co-workers empty plate so no one would notice. It worked surprisingly, but made me really think about what I’m going to do in the future!

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On Friday, it was a really busy day at work, and when I finished work and started my journey home on the highway in the rain, my car broke down! It was such a full on day and I hardly ate a thing. I came home to news that a friend of mine had passed away in NSW the day before. He was only 26 and the most amazing musician! I never would have thought a couple of months ago when we were chatting after one of his gigs that he wouldn’t be around for much longer :(
It really was a BIG wake up call to really be PRESENT and LIVE in each moment that we are blessed with!
I decided to go out and have a nice dinner with Ben  and Rory at our local Raw Restaurant to celebrate life :)

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Saturday was Australia Day…and POURING RAIN AGAIN! Last Aussie Day was SUCH a contrast to this one! I was with about 10 other people who were drinking, smoking and BBQing meat. I was the sober little vegan girl who just wanted to drink water, eat salad, listen to Triple J’s hottest 100 and be surrounded by like minded hippies! After realising that the Australian Culture is all about meat eating and alcohol drinking I remember filming a video blog (which was never posted) saying how out of place I felt. THIS year I have everything that I was asking for when I filmed that video – A Vegan partner who doesn’t drink or smoke, crazy healthy friends who like being fit active and taking photos of healthy food, a blog with so much love and support and the will power and courage to be a vegan :) I spent the first half of the day helping our friends at Raw Pleasure move into their new factory, and the rest of the day listening to the hottest 100 snuggled up with Ben. No Meat. No Alcohol. LOTS of gratitude :)

I hope that all of my fellow Australians spent the day doing what makes them happy :)

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Which brings me to today – Sunday, a day filled with rain and tornados!
I promised myself last night that I would run today come rain, tornado or shine – so I did, and it felt AMAZING! Yeah I got really wet and nearly blown over, but I felt so ALIVE!!!! :)
After spending all day inside today and having plenty of time to self reflect, I have a couple of confessions and apologies to make.

Firstly – A really good friend of mine told me that they had consumed animal products (meat, dairy and eggs) in the last couple of days but were too afraid to tell me until now. Hearing that someone was afraid to tell me something really made me sad and realise that I mustn’t be that loving, kind and understanding if people are afraid to be honest with me. I saw a number of cases in my past where this has happened and it really made me take responsibility that I am JUDGEMENTAL! People think that meat eaters are judgemental of Vegetarians and Vegans, but we judge meat eaters just as much! Instead of reminding ourselves that it’s the act of ‘meat eating’ that we disagree with and not the ‘meat eaters’ like our friends and family, we instead sometimes tend to get on our Vegan High Horse and start thinking that we are perfect and better than others because of our personal choice to go vegan. This isn’t a pay out to any vegans who do this, nor is it intended to categorise and say that ‘all’ vegans do this, nor is it intended offend or upset any of my fellow vegans – because I am one of the biggest culprits of all! Going Vegan was my personal choice as I don’t wish to take part in the consumption or harm of animals. This blog was created to tell my story, share and inspire others who also wish to do the same. So if I have offended you or made you feel ‘not good enough’ with any of my posts then I’m sorry.

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I am excited to say that I have another new segment coming! My aim is to INSPIRE! So I have approached all of the people who inspire me in my life and on my journey to better health and asked them to each contribute a blog post with the aim to inspire! So far I have a lot of willing participants which makes me so incredibly happy and grateful!
I can’t wait to bring this to you! :)

Ben and I are off to Singapore on Wednesday and I am SO EXCITED to leave Australia for the first time!

I hope you are happy, healthy and inspired – have a beautiful night xxx

Food Diary Entry 22 & 23

Well, the last couple of days have been crazy.

Lots of time has been spent assessing the direction my future will head in, making a commitment to working on myself and my way of being by enrolling in a 7 month course, realising that I have a lot of anger from things that have happened in the last year that I have been taking out on myself and the people I love.
BIG changes coming my way…I have a feeling that they will be confronting too!
But you can’t expect to do the same things over and over and expect to get the same results!

Anyway, in other news, I have been featured on another blog!
Michelle is AMAZING! I noticed her name popping up on my page and saw that her last name was ‘Journey to a Pure Life’…obviously this wasn’t a real surname so I did a little Facebook stalking (not in a creepy old man way) and discovered that Michelle has a blog called ‘Journey to a Pure Life‘! I got reading and majorly INSPIRED! I absolutely LOVE coming across new blogs and connecting with people who are on a similar journey!
After following her blog for a while, I thought it would be cool for us to do some cross blogging! You can read my feature here – please stay tuned for Michelle’s interview coming VERY soon!

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OH! And one more thing! I wanted to share this picture with you! I was sitting on the beach with Ben yesterday contemplating life and who I am, what I should be doing etc when this cloud formed itself into an elephant! It looked absolutely beautiful so I thought I would capture the moment to share with you :)
Here are my food diary entries for the last 2 days. I have been super busy and haven’t really been feeling very hungry.

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Have a beautiful day, speak tomorrow xx

Food Diary Entry 21

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So it’s 3 weeks into 2013 and I’m nowhere near where I expected to be. 
I haven’t been running like a motivated fitness freak, my food choices have swayed from good to bad numerous times and my motivation hasn’t come bursting back like I expected it would with this new year. 

I have been getting messages and emails from some amazing people who have read my blog or watched my videos and feel like they can relate. Some just say thank you, some ask for advice and lately I have noticed that the advice I am giving others is what I should be telling/doing myself!
Why is it that even tho I have so much knowledge on what preservatives, non-organic, CRAP and how bad it is for you, and how good organic produce, lots of water and exercise and a positive attitude is for you, I still seem to get in this cycle!
It is driving me nuts and tonight I am feeling really down about it!
I want this blog to be a place of inspiration, but I also want it to be honest and REAL. I know that I can’t be the only one in the world who feels like this and goes through these ups and downs. 

So how do you break bad habits forever? I don’t know at this stage. BUT, I know that keeping a food diary has been good for me to look back on repeating habits and point out things I can improve on. 
Also, I am back into the habit of people pleasing and excuses making! 
I think it’s time for the individualist in me to peek it’s little head out and start leading by example once more :)

 

Wow, that probably seems quite the ramble – but I feel a lot better now :)
I hope you have a beautiful sleep, talk tomorrow xxxx

Manly Mondays – I’m Skinny

Hi, I’m Ben and I’m Skinny.

I’m not skinny because I am Vegan, I’m skinny because thats just the way my body is. My father is tall and skinny, so am I, its just the way things are. I’m not unhealthy, I’m not starving, in fact, I nourish my body with the best organic fruits and vegetables I can buy and I regularly work on my fitness.

Being vegan doesn’t necessarily mean that you will lose weight and wind up skinny. I have vegan friends who are skinny, ones who are fat, ones who are healthy and ones who are sick. The exact same can be said about my omnivore friends. There are so many factors that determine our body shapes and sizes, certainly not just our diet.

As you may have seen in my before and after picture, I am able to put on weight, at my heaviest point I reached 86kgs. All that extra weight was fat that sat mostly around my belly and my face. This accumulated from YEARS of bad eating, LOTS of fast food, BINGE drinking alcohol, LOTS of soft drinks and NO exercise! Since giving up all of the above, combined with light exercise, my body came back down to its comfortable size of 70kgs, in a matter of 3 months. That was 16kgs of extra fat I was carrying around just because of my lazy, typical western lifestyle. Lucky for me, I woke up to what I was doing, before it got out of control or I ended up sick and on some form of medication, sadly like the majority of western society.

Why do some people put weight on easier than others? Why do others with excess weight struggle to lose it? Why can some people, no matter how hard they try, just not put any weight on at all? These 3 questions all have a very simple bottom line answer. Obviously life style choices have a lot to do with it, but the basics of it come down to what body type you are:

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Ectomorph:

An ectomorph is my body type, the typical skinny guy. They have a light build with narrow joints and lean muscle. Generally ectomorph’s have long thin limbs, stringy muscles and tend to not have much width across the shoulders. They also find it hard to gain weight because of a fast metabolism which burns up calories very quickly.

At the gym: Short, intense workouts focusing on big muscle groups are recommended, along with minimal cardio and a large calorie intake in order to gain weight. On the plus side, ectomorphs can lose fat very easily which makes cutting back to lean muscle easier.

Mesomorph:

Mesomorphs are the naturally athletic type with larger muscles and bone structure. They find it quite easy to gain and lose weight and are considered the best body type for bodybuilding, because they are naturally strong which is the perfect platform for building muscle.

At the gym: The mesomorph body type responds the best to weight training and gains are usually seen very quickly. One downside to mesomorphs is they can also gain fat as easy as they can gain muscle, this means they must watch their calorie intake. A combination of weight training and cardio works best for this body type.

Endomorph:

The endomorph body type is round or solid and often referred to as the “stocky” guy. Endomorphs usually have a shorter build with thick arms and legs and can gain muscle and fat very easily. Endomorphs find their muscles are strong, especially in the upper legs. Due to having a slow metabolism, Endomorphs find it very hard to lose fat.

At the gym: When it comes to training, a combination of cardio as well as weight trainging must be used to keep fat gain to a minimum.

Now you know a little bit more about the 3 main body types, hopefully you can see which one you are and use that as a good base to work on the right areas in life to get to where you want to be.

In summary: Being Vegan, won’t make you skinny. Being Vegan, won’t make you fat. Being Vegan, won’t make you healthy.(Remember you can be a very unhealthy vegan by eating bad foods and not exercising) Being Vegan, won’t make you sick.(Unless you eat terribly!) These ways of being are not only determined by your body type, but majorly by your choice of lifestyle. Whether you are vegan or not, your food choices impact your overall being. Absolutely everybody should take part in some form of regular exercise, along with nourishing your body with the best fresh fruit and vegetables you can find. If you treat your body right, it will treat you right!

Wasting time and energy on worrying about how others look or comparing yourself, is not getting you any closer to where you want to be. Remember to always be grateful for what you do have and love your body for everything it is!

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Until next week, remember to eat your veggies!

Food Diary Entry 19 & 20

This weekend was my first weekend living back by the sea after my first week of full time work in the city. I am a gypsy between two places right now and this feels both liberating and unsettling. I am someone whose diet thrives with routine, so when I am here, there and everywhere…it is easy for me to let the overwhelming feelings overpower my choices. This weekend was a variation of Cocoluscious Ice Cream, fruit, juices, Rawganic Chocolate combined with bike rides, getting sunburnt and catching up on TV series that I have become hooked on. Along with these choices of food and activities, came a mixture of emotions (I seem to have them a lot lately) I have gone from being super happy and grateful for living in such a beautiful country, to being down on myself for having pimples and not feeling like I do the vegan lifestyle justice.
I know that the food you eat has an effect on your emotions, so I am going to try to pin point what foods trigger what emotions. Also, I am going to try to focus on more and more things to be grateful for…because I am so incredibly lucky and I want to have more appreciation for my life.

Anyway, as I type this, Ben is on his computer typing his third Manly Monday post. The topic is a very interesting one that I think both girls and guys alike will relate to :)
In the meantime, here are my food diary entries from this weekend, along with a quick video that Ben and I filmed today.
Have a beautiful day, talk tomorrow xxx

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It’s Rawsome Cafe

Today Mum and I were so excited to visit such a
BEAUTIFUL, AMAZING, DELICIOUS
Raw Vegan Cafe in Bli Bli, Sunshine Coast called

‘It’s Rawsome’

and let me tell you – it was!
I have tasted ALOT of raw vegan foods, and this was one of the BEST places I have been to. The owners of the cafe were so down to earth and lovely, with amazing service. They made us feel so welcome and like family.

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We chose to sit outside to enjoy the view and the breeze while we were scanning the menu for our choices – our decisions were pretty easy!
We both had Coconuts to begin with, which were AMAZING!

Mum ordered the Raw Burrito’s.
YUM!

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Mum ordered the Raw Burrito’s.
YUM!

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I ordered the Beetroot Ravioli – the picture speaks for itself!

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Mum is on an Anti Candida 28 Day Cleanse so unfortunately she couldn’t partake in the devouring of any raw slices, therefore, I had to take one for the team!
This is the Chocolate Hazelnut Slice.
WOW!!!!!!
One of the most scrumptious raw vegan desserts I have ever tasted!

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If you are planning a trip to the Sunshine Coast, I would HIGHLY recommend you stop by this funky little place on your way!
Check out It’s Rawsome Cafe on Facebook and give them a like!

Right now I am so FULL!
So I’m off to bed for a big nights sleep!
I hope you’ve had a beautiful day, talk soon xxx